Victoria’s Intuitive Independent Male Escort

Remi Blake at incall . currently active sex worker

Joy blooms when we forget ourselves and become immersed in laughter, conversation, and pleasure. Imagine losing track of time together by candle light with tasty food and wine - our night, animated by warmth and intuition.

I'm a down to earth guy who love to share in the peculiarities of this odd world and make space for relaxed and fun erotic encounters. I welcome you to reach out and discover what our connection might look like.

Hey, I’m Remi

Companionship is one of the most important things in life. Unfortunately, it is under-valued in this society where connection can be hard to come by. I am grateful to be able to have a part-time job where I can hold space for others. I’m naturally a sexual and playful person who finds comfort through easing into new encounters with some comic levity. Intimacy is so fun when the pressure is off and we can be ourselves.  

In my everyday life, feminism inspires me to listen with thoughtful empathy. It also means not taking myself too seriously and sharing in the hilarity of everyday life - what a relief! All of that said, I still truly enjoy being a man who can sometimes be firm. When the dynamic is right and everyone is comfy, I love the thrill of meeting soft with hard and getting carried away together in warm pleasure. We are complex creatures with so many sides to us! I look forward to getting to know some of your many sides and showing you some of mine.

More About Me

in overalls looking out at Victoria BC. intimacy oriented pro dom

Age: Early 30s            

In the flesh: I’m 5’9 with an athletic build and an inviting smile. My well-cared for body is my home. I am fit, and skilled with the softness of a man comfortable in his own skin. 7 inches with girth… if you’re curious.

Education: graduate degree, other university + many lessons from the school of life.

FMTY (fly me to you): yes - I love to travel

Incall:  near downtown Victoria, BC

Outcall: yes              

BFE (boyfriend experience): yes baby     

Discretion?: yes and I expect that in return  

ProDom/Kink:  Yes… but please inquire. I’m pretty open minded so try me! I absolutely love to dom and beyond all of my practice - I’ve been told that I’m a natural. Extra communication is needed to create the right scene that is both comfortable and thrilling so please be ready to talk about it. I’d love to know exactly why it turns you on as kink is often all about the details. 

Duos: I love duos. Please refer to my duos list here.

Who Do I See?: I am currently offering full service to female sex folks. Folks of all other sexes are welcome to inquire about which services are offered.

Couples: Yes! My rates go up by 30%. Feel free to reach out about what is on the table for an MMF encounter.  

Discounts: I offer a discount for low income and marginalized folks, plus other providers.

Testimonials

  • Remi guided the experience beautifully, balancing between firm and gentle (which was exactly what I needed). Before our session, he listened carefully to my ideas and requests and asked thoughtful follow-up questions that let me know he was paying close attention and invested in my having a good time. I really enjoyed our time together – it felt so natural, comfortable, and fun! I left feeling whole and happy. I’m looking forward to next time. - K.W., 35 

  • I was initially very nervous in the lead up to my time with Remi. I had booked a session focusing on domination. As an SA survivor, being submissive can be difficult, especially with a new person. Remi immediately put me at ease. He was kind, attentive, and caring while also being funny and incredibly sweet. His genuine enthusiasm and openness warmed my heart. Nothing felt fake and I loved that he never pushed my limits and was always checking in. I felt very safe. Remi is quite an amazing person inside and out and I look forward to seeing him again. - Simone

Some of my Interests

Lounging on a Gult Island. Male Escort FMTY

  • hiking, camping, fitness, yoga, sauna

  • reading, politics, therapeutic modalities, cold therapy…sometimes

  • cooking, black tea blends, lamps and candles

  • films, live music, community, festivals

  • banter, sarcasm, cuddles, parody, & comedy